For quite some time, I have wished that my T and pdoc would communicate with each other on my behalf. But fairly early into my therapeutic relationship with my T, he made his feelings of dislike and ( I thought) contempt for the pdoc clear.
I decided that kind of communication must be rare and only for the worthy. Only recently have I reconsidered my need for them to talk. I spend probably 1 to 1 1/2 hours per year with the shrink and 1 hour per week with the T.
So, today I told my T that I wished the two of them would talk, for my sake. He nodded and said he would be happy to try and reach out to him but that he may not want to talk.
Wait…what? Is that all I had to do…ask? Fuck me. Doc